Thursday, June 26, 2008


"Because when I feel safe, I can really relax, close all my eyes, and do just about anything you want." -- Johanna
There is a gentleman that has danced with me from the very first time I stepped on the floor, and we have a certain comfort level and always enjoy the dance, but I have noticed lately a...lack of awareness on his part regarding floorcraft. I don't wish to stop dancing with him, but I no longer feel safe...and this week have the bruises to show for it.

How do I let him know this while still being kind and firm?

1 comment:

ModernTanguera said...

Perhaps if he invites you to dance, you can gently say, "I would love to, but maybe after the floor clears a bit." Something to let him know that you would accept a dance but not with so many people to potentially run into. But ultimately I think the level of frankness with which you tell him depends on your social relationship. I'd be interested to hear how other people handle this.